Picture it. Grayson, 2026. 🐶

May 18, 2026May 17, 2026 Heather KightLeave a comment

I love being a dog mom.

I really do.

Until I don’t. And anyone who cherishes those furry little freeloaders will get it.

(In my best Sophia Petrillo voice) Picture it … Grayson, 2026.

It’s a dreary Monday morning. My mood is happy and hopeful in spite of the cloudy sky. Even the familiar alarm clock that sounds a lot like my Corgi whining to go out doesn’t offend me. We walk.

But then … oh, then it happens.

Phoebe (my Corgi) heads toward a spot covered in pine straw and, most likely, the scent of other dogs. I expect her to squat. Possibly hunch.

No.

She digs a little and decides breakfast is served in the form of what I suspect to be poop.

HEAVY SIGH.

I hold on to that glimmer of hope that it’s something else. A randomly abandoned French fry. Maybe a crunchy bud off a harmless tree.

With a tug on her harness, I disrupt her snack.

She lifts her head, pine straw hanging from her mouth.

Being the responsible dog mom that I am, I attempt to yank the straw from her jaws. Successfully. Only it’s not just straw that dislodges. Because of course it isn’t.

My hand is smeared with feces. No idea what type. I didn’t have Bear Grylls along to identify the scat. What I do know:

It is mushy
It smells bad
It clings to my fingers like glitter to … well, anything

Meanwhile, Phoebe’s side-eyeing me like I’m the server that took her plate with half a ribeye on it. 😒

Ma’am.

The poo-poo platter was NOT on the menu.

I’m scraping an unidentified fecal sample from my fingers with the dog waste bag. Trying not to gag. Considering my life choices. Nearly dragging Phoebe and my Chihuahua Maggie to anywhere but the buffet of boo-boo.

Oh, Maggie? Sporting a look somewhere between disgust and full-on smug. I swear her eyes say, “Mother, please note that I’m the civilized one here.” 😏

Duly noted.

Apparently, my canine crew consists of an angelic Chi and a 15-year-old Corgi faster than the speed of light when it comes to sidewalk snacks.

And in spite of her dietary delicacies, I never stop walking her. Or treating her. Or looking into those big brown eyes while stroking her big white ears.

I can’t imagine life without Phoebe.

Poop bags and all.

Small cream-colored Corgi-Chihuahua mix sitting attentively on a sunflower-themed kitchen mat beside white cabinets, looking up at the camera with wide dark eyes and oversized upright ears. A plush bee-striped gnome decoration rests at her paws while she waits hopefully in the kitchen. — *A nose for buried treasure and ears for ignoring Mom.*

Domestic Survival Logs: Weather Edition

March 12, 2026March 21, 2026 Heather KightLeave a comment

Picture it: Grayson, 2026.
Thursday morning.

Our heroine is ready for work on time. A rare and glorious achievement.

All that remains is the simple task of walking the dogs.
Simple.

Dogs leashed.
Door opened.
Rain.
Not a polite drizzle.
Not a gentle mist.
No.
The sky chose violence.

Now begins the delicate ballet of holding two leashes while attempting to open the coat closet and retrieve an umbrella from the top shelf, because apparently I believe in living dangerously before coffee.

At this moment the household divides.

Maggie (15-pound Chunkhuahua):
Sees rain.
Immediately aborts mission.
Sprints back toward the living room — leash still firmly attached to my hand.

Phoebe (Her Highness of Welsh Corgihood):
Bladder urgency has reached critical levels.
She charges for the yard like a tiny four-legged torpedo.

Meanwhile I am stretching on tiptoe, grabbing the umbrella with my fingertips like a contestant in America’s Next Top Disaster.

Physics intervenes.
The umbrella is acquired.
My balance is not.
I am pulled toward Maggie.

The front door slams.
Phoebe is outside.
Maggie is inside.
I am standing in the doorway of my life choices.

So naturally I scoop up the 15-pound Chunkhuahua, juggle both dog and umbrella, reopen the door, and yell across the complex:

“PHOEBE!”

Phoebe pauses.
Turns.
Looks back at me.

The look says three things:
💠I heard you.
💠I acknowledge that you are yelling.
💠Biological processes outrank your panic.

She resumes her mission.

I chase after her, literally putting my best foot forward (on the flapping leash), finally open the umbrella, and the morning’s hydration event begins.

Cartoon illustration of a woman standing in a rainstorm looking exasperated while holding a small Chihuahua and an umbrella as a corgi runs away with a pink leash through puddles. — Some mornings build character.
This one built a drinking habit. ☕️🌧️🐶

Dogs make water.
Sky makes water.
Mission accomplished.

We return inside where both dogs immediately present themselves for treat compensation for their bravery during the storm.

Treats are dispensed.

Maggie returns to Blanket Mountain, burrowing so completely that only the occasional nose or butt emerges from the fleece bunker.

Phoebe, concerned about the thunder, receives a hemp treat and then supervises the house like the dignified elder she is.

Before leaving for work, I straighten the pillows on my side of the bed and lay my sweatshirt in the spot.

Phoebe hops up.
Circles.
Settles in.
And gives me the softest little look of gratitude. 🐶❤️

Which is how a morning that began with chaos, rain, leashes, and umbrella combat ends with something quieter:

A corgi on a pillow.
My sweatshirt under her chin.
And the comforting knowledge that when I come home tonight…
Two dogs will be on the couch waiting for walks, dinner, and my presence.

Also probably more treats.

Scratch that. Definitely more treats.

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Christmas Eve Chaos

December 25, 2025 Heather Kight2 Comments

Twas the night before Christmas, and with festive smiles,
We drove to the mountains – all 100 miles.
My gas tank was full. The dogs had been fed.
“Join us in Blue Ridge,” my daughter had said.

“We rented a cabin — twill be so much fun!”
Four dogs, three kids, and room for each one.
So, trunk packed with presents and GPS ready,
The dogs and I traveled along sure and steady.

We got to the cabin — what a delight!
Why not expect everything to be right?
My daughter looked frazzled searching her phone.
“We need the door code,” she let out a moan.

Her husband called VRBO begging for help.
The dogs were barking, and one let a yelp.
The children — all hungry — started to whine.
My bladder was screaming, “No, it’s not fine!”

Cartoon-style illustration of a woman locked out of a cabin on Christmas Eve, staring at her phone while her two small dogs, Phoebe and Maggie, stand beside her in the snow near luggage and wrapped gifts. — Christmas Eve plans: cabin in the mountains.
Reality: locked out, dogs judging me, 220 miles later… back home.
Still counts as an adventure, right? 🎄🤷🏼‍♀️

The afternoon sunshine started to fade
Into the dark, like the plans we had made.
After an hour that seemed more like two,
“Sadly, there is nothing more we can do.”

The grandkids were angry, and so was I.
My daughter, defeated, wanted to cry.
My son-in-law? Bless the heart of this spouse.
He laughed and said, “How about Waffle House?”

By this time the dogs had marked every tree.
No longer caring, I squatted to pee
Behind a trash can, safely out of view.
Security cameras? Just one or two.

We had to decide — it was getting late.
No decent options provided by fate.
We all hugged good-bye and got in our cars.
We drove back to Georgia beneath the stars.

One hundred miles, and then I was home,
Travel completed and nowhere to roam.
Christmas lasagna was not meant to be.
Instead, a sandwich — dogs staring at me.

Photo of two small dogs, Maggie and Phoebe, sitting close together and looking up attentively at their owner, their faces expectant and expressive. — *“Please, Mum, might we have some more?”*

Tucked in my bed, I was sleepy and warm,
With Maggie and Phoebe — back to our norm.
My eyelids grew heavy, but not my soul:
There are things in life I cannot control.

I fell asleep with no pain or sorrow.
Christmas morning will be here tomorrow:
Not in a cabin surrounded by trees,
I don’t need fancy; my heart is at ease.

We’ll gather together, the kids and me,
And open the presents under the tree.
We’ll eat Christmas turkey and drink eggnog,
And later enjoy that post-dinner fog.

Laughter will ring through the air like a bell.
Past Christmas stories will make my heart swell.
With love in my heart and kids in my arms,
Holiday magic will sprinkle its charms.

When the day’s over, I’ll slip into bed,
Dogs by my side, pillow under my head.
Stars in the sky will show up and twinkle.
I’m glad I can stay indoors to tinkle. 😁🙃🙈🎄🎁

MERRY CHRISTMAS FROM MENOPAUSE & MALARKEY!